Just to clarify, no one told me that sleepovers were happening again or you were moving in. Whichever is happening. So it's not that I "can't take a hint" but that J is not being honest about the nature of his relationship with you. I am not getting dragged into this again though. I just ask that you remain respectful while my daughter is visiting.
Today makes four year of marriage. Even though it's been a fractured marriage for a long time it is still four years that we have been together. I never imagined that life would end up here but it is for the best. So today I do my best to be rid of a bitter heart and move forward with an open mind. I just want you to know that even though you chose a life with Kristina or Brittany, I still tried to be by your side. I still tried to fight for us. I wish you the best in life and with whomever you end up with. Happy Four Years my love.