Warning: This post is absolutely me venting. It is absolutely me putting my nose where it very much doesn't belong. It is about selfish people. It is about a woman with a huge heart that ass wipes take advantage of. It is about a man who is lost but yet two women keep fighting over him like he's man of the year.
You were warned. This is the only post I am making about this.
Also, I don't want to hear your dramatic comments about how I'm wrong. And it's none of my business. Beauty of it being MY blog. I can post what I please.
Other than that, they would see Ally on a regular basis but the hour distance makes it hard for us to visit each other especially with my mother in-law having a demanding work schedule just like me.
I talked to R last night about a post that Brit had made. He made a valid point. We're in the final stretch of making Cali happen. Brit's life isn't even an ounce together and just because I ran into a rut doesn't mean I failed. My biggest flaw I panic at the first sign of trouble instead of breathing through and looking for a solution.
I could be wrong but I don't think I've ever threatened my MIL with taking her grandchild away from her. If I have ever threatened her with this I feel ashamed for it. These two women fail to realize why she is nervous to get close to her kids when the reason is right in front of their faces:
Every time you aren't Jr's piece of the month you threaten her with taking away her grandkids.
For instance, Brit was in a terrible situation so MIL did what anyone with a heart would have done and took her in. Kris then decided MIL didn't need to see or know Charlie let alone be around Izzy anymore.
It is a continiuous vicious cycle and the only reason MIL puts up with it is because of the FOUR kids by Jr. This is where immaturity comes in. You both call yourselves mothers but can't put aside your bullshit long enough to give these kids the support system they both deserve. Not every kid is lucky enough to have grandparents, uncles, aunts, friends. You should want the best for your kids but threatening to commit suicide or screaming or being a snob just because he picked someone else is ridiculous.
For four years he cheated on me. His then wife. If he was willing to break the vow of matrimony and cheat on somebody he had willingly chosen to spend his life with what makes you think you both are any different? You both were the products of the affairs. The other woman never walks away happy. No matter how much you let Jr ("Daddy") use, tattoo, walk all over your body. Kris is a damn idiot because the only reason Jr is getting in on her good side is because she's fixing to be a walking piggy bank.
You both could do so much more with your life. Jr has put you both through hell yet your goals in 2017 aren't to provide for your kids, no it's to be selfish and fight to put them back in good with misery.
This is exactly why I broke free and exactly why Ally won't be around Jr. Yes, I asked him to sign off his right. He has willingly agreed. Before that talk ever happened he was able to continue to see Ally for visitation. He hasn't bothered since the first weekend in October. That should say everything you need to.
A man needs to be happy with himself before he can provide for others in a relationship. Some people are toxic. Quit dragging the one woman who is just trying to salvage her sanity for the kids into all of this and stay in your damn lane.